Shadow? What is shadow all about? I will just think of light and object wwhen the shadow is mentioned; a shadow is produced when a light is being blocked by an object!
But, in life, we always talk about the shadow of someone, we always live under the shadow but we are not realized! “Do we not all spend the greater part of our lives under the shadow of an event that has not yet come to pass?”
(To live in shadow is not meant that you live under protection, in fact you are escaping from the reality. A shadow is a reference but it will never be your Savior. You could just temporary live without annoyance &pain, please wake up my dear!)
Sincerely, I write this based on my feeling and I would really share with you especially my juniors. It is good if we learn things from others but it is an unhealthy significant if you learn things under the shadow of someone you admired. I do admire few great men in the world, but I will never fall myself to live under his/her shadow. I know where should I learn from him/her and where should I be myself.
Everybody has his/her way of life, you have your own brain and you should define things based on your wisdom and experience. There are many right things & wrong things in the world; it is how you apply your wisdom to justify it. I could tell you it is right, but I am rather to see you to carry out the outcome by yourself; with your heart and your brain.
You cannot always live under my protection. You will never live under the protection of your parents since your dad & mom will leave you one day too. If you think it is the right thing and it is good for you own, then you should voice out and strike for it. I will never say it is a selfish behaviour if you choose the things you want for yourself. Many people feel regretful because they dare not to speak out things they want. Many people are caring and loving to their respectful persons/leaders and they will never say NO to them though they are wrong. Is it a good attitude or good sign, think about it?
(Everybody has his/her own shadow, you can actually create your own shadow rather following someone's shadow. Be yourself, go go do.)
What is life and what is shadow. A shadow is about an example for you to “copy” or to learn from a person but a life is the way how you choose and how you walk alone. You should have chosen your own life because you know what the best is for you yourself. Therefore, I really urge my dear friends/juniors to choose things you like. Just try, and take out your courage to say to me or the particular person whatever you have thought and whatever you have preferred too.
Of course, fear is the greatest self-enemy in oneself since we are worried to hurt someone we love or we respect the most. But, it is not the way you should follow actually because it will only hurt you much eventually. There are many ways in negotiation, we just need to compromise to each other and prove the logical sense to the person. If he/she still cannot accept, do or don’t give up is always dependant on your hands.
But, I will always take it as a gambling just like how I challenge myself in my life. You will never know the feeling on the top of Mount. Everest if you have ever been there yet!
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