Sunday, January 9, 2011

The Pure Love, Love In Campus....

"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage."

I just came back from KL after we had met with few country leaders at KL these two days. It was a great journey & meaningful discussion indeed. We learnt many things from the conversation then I and comrades have discussed many things in car like career, family, campus activities and more importantly was about relationship.

Of course, I believe most of my friends are dating or you were in relationship before but you might not have both experience before too! What is love actually? I think most people will say LOVE is about feeling or something could not be expressed but it can only be felt through heart?

In car, we discussed about Your Girl Friend. We have five persons in car and just two of us are in relationship and three of us are Single Status now. Now, I think most of us are worrying about future partner. Sincere speaking, it is good if you could get your boy/girl friend during campus life. The world is changing; the world is no longer as 80’s and the world are about materialistic world today. In campus, the couples are romanticism and they are so pure in many things because they don’t have many problems.

In campus, your relationships are romantic, naive, and unsophisticated. Your relationship with your partner is just like Prince & Princess; dating, cinema, hi tea, shopping and vacation all the time. This is why I prefer the love to be in campus rather than the real society. You are so pure and your mind is so unsophisticated when you are young, you are so believed and confident in your partner when you are young especially in university life.

But, we are worried and we are worrying about “Single Status” in campus since we are going to graduate soon. We are hoping to look for a suitable partner because we believe in Pure Relationship in campus life.

Today, the world is so materialistic and so competitive. When you are outside, the girls would ask about 5C which are condominium, credit card, cash, carat and career respectively. But, we could not blame the girls because they are getting more with the feeling of insecure since some of them are disappointed in marriage or relationship (divorce, affair or break-up). World is changing, men are getting hard to look for partner because we cannot achieve the criteria especially when we are about fresh graduate.

Dear friends, I am not writing it to stress you up. In fact, I am in the situation too and still looking for my partner. Sincerely, it is better for you to manage properly the relationship when you are in university life. Your love in university is so romantic and pure. When you have your boyfriend or girlfriend, please do just care and love him/her more, buy things for each other and keep calling or sms each other to show you’re caring. People need care and love, people need strength and courage to carry on the relationship especially one of you are in insecure status.

Therefore, please do never think of there is a better candidate waiting for you, please do not leave him/her just because a small challenge. Believe me, a small challenge is the best training process to bring you two closer and to bring you two to love each other much than before.

There is no regret in love relationship, just do tell the boy/girl if you have good feeling with him/her, just do tell him/her when you miss him/her, just do take out your courage if you still him/her. It is a simple way and it could bring you happiness too. Good Luck…

Sometimes soft words of love can melt the toughest heart, so it is good for you to talk more and be sincere to each other. Just say, I LOVE YOU to your partner and show your HEART to him/her. How about me? Of course I prefer to have my relationship when I am still in campus life. It is a philosophy of mine; Coffee is about bitterness and sweetness, I believe love is about the sweetness after bitterness. If I can choose, I would like to hope that my partner could walk with me from the tough time to happy time. Again, I am just pure, naïve and unsophisticated in relationship.

Love me in the Springtime, when all is green and new,
Love me in the Summer, when the sky is oh so blue,
Love me in the Autumn, when the leaves are turning brown,
Love me in the Winter, when the snow is falling down.

Love me when I'm happy, and even when I'm sad,
Love me when I'm good, or when I'm oh so bad,
Love me when I'm pretty, or if my face is plain,
Love me when I'm feeling good, or when I'm feeling pain.

Love me always darlin', in the rain or shining sun,
Love me always darlin', after all is said and done,
Love me always darlin', until all our life is through,
Love me always darlin', for I'll be lovin' you!



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aJxrX42WcjQ (You Raise Me Up)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Eho6m_H1q2c (I Will Always Love You)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-uIQp9Dqcrw (To Where You Are)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Eho6m_H1q2c (You Are Still You)


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