What make female and male different - 女生就是喜欢口是心非?

女生就是喜欢口是心非, 有时我真的没办法了解到底她们要什么？

女生都是口是心非吗？如果一个女生对她的男朋友说讨厌他，那是不是就是喜欢的意思？

有时，我真的会觉得很矛盾，因为我真的搞不清她们脑子里在想什么？

为什么她们想的与她们所做的有很大的分别，甚至是自相矛盾！

也许，她们就是在她吃你醋的时候，就口是心非，目的是想让你哄她，女孩子嘛，要哄地！

也许，她们太在意你了，所以常常耍一些“小动作”来博我们男生的注意及重视！

也许，她们很爱你，但又不能够拥有你，所以只好放下你！

女生的口是心非，其实就是在向自己喜欢的男生撒娇，她想叫自己喜欢的男生以她为中心，你问她，她又不好直说，可是心里是甜蜜的，这就是恋爱中小女生的吧！

无论她们又多么的“多样化”，但是，我总是还会欣赏女生的；尤其是智慧型的女生最吸引我啦！

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus; it is an absolute right!

Women need oxytocin from stroking and men need testosterone for accomplishment. Then men can use one part of a brain and women can use all parts of a brain. Again, men are like sprinters and women have more stamina. Somehow, men self-sense are the ability to achieve results while women are to have feeling and quality of relationship, and give up giving unsolicited results!

MOTIVATION, men is being motivated when needed but women need it when cherished. Then, women unhappiness taken as men failure!

STRESS, men go to caves to solve problem alone but women get together “Jie Mei” to talk about problems! So, problems come after problem-discussion? Men’s relief is from being right but women are from emphatic listening!

Haha, there are many to talk about and to share in future later on.

Somehow, I'm still interested in girl especially a smart & knowledgeable type.

Cheers for my dream girl!

My Dream Venue for my wedding party – Pulau Sipadan

The marriage has been defined as “a union between persons that is recognized by custom or religious tradition as a marriage.”

I love being married. It's so great to find that one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life.

(Prince William has honoured his late mother by giving his new fiancée Kate Middleton the engagement ring that Prince Charles once gave to Princess Diana. William & Kate are ready for red carpet on 29^th April; I sincerely wish them all the best)

(I still remembered her smile, no worries Prince Charles; you were not wrong because I believe both of you had to be responsible of the divorce too)

That is why I think Pulau Sipadan is my best idealised venue to hold for my wedding party. It consists of the combination of natural elements of soil (beach), water (sea) and sky (white-blue cloud). I guess it is such a great moment for you and me to have a memorable wedding occasion on the beach surrounded by the blue ocean. Nevertheless, I would really work hard to prepare my financial ability to bring its reality to be a dream, or I will just go there for my honeymoon.

A wedding anniversary is the celebration of love, trust, partnership, tolerance and tenacity. The order varies for any given year. So, please do always remember your meaningful day and do celebrate it with your partner no matter how busy you are later! For me, I guess I will bring my partner to travel around each time in ten year anniversary; travel to Berlin, Rome, Vienna and some other historical places in European and around the world.

(My favourite leader – Bill Clinton, I like the wedding of Chelsea Clinton and Marc Mezvinsky. It is because I treat you one of the most respectful leaders in world and I definitely wish your daughter happy forever)

I swear there are not just sweet promises or empty promises I made here because I am working hard for the aim and goal in life. You have to bear in mind that you are no longer living alone in the contract of marriage. You are required to learn how to bear for all the differences among you and your partner after the marriage. But, do find out the common interest after all differences and it helps you to strengthen the relationship. Never think of divorce, divorce will eventually bring you disappointment and fear in your partner or love.

Here, I am ready to build up my Home Sweet Home Family. Of course, I would give myself a few years to ready for my marriage.

ALL THE BEST to Sipadan Island and My Marriage

Regards…

手牵手，一起走在沙滩上

爱之切，爱之深，

我依然是五年前的我，

我对于爱的了解依然是那么执著。

想念，我依然还是很怀念那一段日子，

我想，我还是停留在沙滩漫步中的回忆，

你我手牵手，看着听着大海的一举一动，

大海依然在哪儿，但你我却一个东一个西！

今天，我一个人走在梦里，我问问自己？

你找找到了自己的回忆吗？你向往沙滩的漫步吗？

我在梦里回答说：“我还是很怀念着那一些时光，那一些回忆。”

然而，我醒了过来！我知道我发了一场梦，我知道我在做梦！

但，我相信梦中的一切就是我潜意识的每一句真话，真心的话！

无论如何，我依然会一步一步地走下去，慢慢地走下去，

因为我知道，明天会更好；因为我知道，一分耕耘一分收获，

我深信，只要我好好地努力，将来会有更多美好的事物出现，

我知道，沙滩的回忆已经成为过去式；我知道，很多东西已经不同了，

但我很清楚的知道，我依然是最喜欢在沙滩漫步，一步一步地拖着你的手走！

Is That My Obligation to Look After You? Is That My Duty to Give All The Time?

What can I do? What can I say?

Is that my fault? Is that my fault because I gave a high expectation on everybody or someone has taken granted from me?

I last to give a chance to me myself. If I don't see the improvement and therefore I'll withdraw from the team immediately. When I write this article, it is not because I am having emotional battling but it is because I feel speechless on many other issues especially ATTITUDE.

I will never say that I am a good man; I will never say that I am perfect all the time, but I will say that I am willing to learn and I always avoid the same mistake in life.

But, when I look back on some of you, then I started thinking on my own perspective! Who am I actually and why am I here for? I recalled how I suffered from the past and how I overcome all the challenges in the past. I don’t really expect what you can do, but I just hope you can always remember the Good Values in ATTITUDE. It was not because you cannot conduct a proper job in life/programme, but it was because you don’t really use heart to learn from the past.

Everybody is busy, me too, but I know what are the responsibilities in life. Of course, I might be strong and tough, you might not, but it doesn’t mean that I can complete everything in life in every 11^th Hour. I always delay my homework too but I at least inform my partner. I do inform my partner because I know we should not ask people to wait for, I know he/she must have something important to do in later.

What about you? Is that my obligation to look after you? Is that my duty to give all the time? I could give you but I just hope that you could respect me as a HUMAN, please? I just want to see a proper well-managed team working sprit among you all. Of course, if you treat me as a HUMAN, then you must know how to deal with me.

When you call me at 4 in the morning, I picked up the call. WHY and WHY I did so? Is it because I was so naïve believing CHANGE will come to you eventually? But, I decided to withdraw my words today; I will only give the last chance for me myself to stand for everything.

I therefore to say, I am sorry if I cannot see change in the team and I will leave without leaving any word here.

I am so sorry of everything!

Your dear friend/senior/father/grandfather,

Woeidar CHAI…